All Those That Can Hear, Lend An Ear.

I'm confusing; I know, I can get my mind lost in mazes of deduction, conclusions and human made beliefs.
Why? I'm human, and that is my moment of stubornness.
When I'm convienced I can do it by myself, I don't need help and I get determinded to cause self sabatage in my life.

I know it's due to ignorance and reluctance to admit I don't have a clue as to what to do, in any situation. This is all to true for everyone, espeically adults. I know parents it's hard to admit that you did wrong, but to teach your children true strength is to fess up that you don't know everything and you make mistakes. Like everyone does, as long as you tell them you're trying your best and you only do what you do with the best intention, any child can come to understand and respect that.

I often think how to go about expressing my thoughts and beliefs to others to the best of my ability.
Seeing the conversation from their point of view seems to be the best way to look and come about it. I think; "what if someone said this to me?", "would I be able to understand where they were coming from?", and "is this the best possible way to word this conversation to keep their attention without anger/saddness/disappointment?" though this depends what exactly you're trying to make the other person feel, but beware we all shouldn't want or try to make anyone feel anything other than happiness, joy, etc.

We all want others to listen and want to listen to our hurt, thoughts and everything that makes us who we are. But you won't get that unless you know how to go about asking for that from soemone.

If you come to someone whinning and begging, no doubt you'll probably rope in some unwilling participants, but you'll only end up bringing yourself and others frustration. With the result ending in everyone trying to avoid you from then on out.

Now guilting someone into hearing you out is not only cruel but manipulating. If you become that person, you'll never have someone truely there for you and you will always feel alone.

Those of you that run and deny every ounce of emotion you have of the need to be loved and accepted, you're denying yourself happiness. You're causing yourself such pain and hatred that you begin to make yourself believe that no one can or will ever love you. Do not let yourself get to that point, you are loved and you are worth every bit of happiness.

I have gone through each one of these strategies all in order to be heard, accepted and loved. What I've learned so far is, you must love yourself in order for others to love you. I know this may bring frustration to you, it had me.

See how can you come to love yourself, if you have never experienced being loved by another to know how to love yourself? Here is your answer; Jesus. Understand and seek him, you will be so overwhelmed by his unending, unconditonal love. It's hard not to want to shout, cry and laugh all at the same time because of the outstanding and powerful feeling of relief and joy.

It's something so great that even beginning to grasp how much he has and always will love you, makes every painful memory, every burden and sorrow you've been barely getting yourself through, gets washed away. Explaining just how beautiful and amazing his love is, is a trick in itself, it is indeed difficult. But please, if you want joy, happiness and every burden on your shoulders lifted and taken away. Search and come to him with all your problems and sorrows.
Pray believing and humbly asking for what you truely cannot take on by yourself anymore, and he will save you, love you and care for you. And believe me he wants to, he's always right there waiting for you to put it in his hands, so you don't have to deal with the burden on your own.

He made you intending you to live being happy, properous and joyful. You're life is a blessing, put it in Gods hands and he'll make sure you live seeing and feeling that every second you spend walking along side him.

In life you should always be asking yourself questions, to really understand what your living for and why. Otherwise if you're going about life clueless as to why you do anything, that is the description itself of being the "living dead".
To start off, I will leave you with a question to ask yourself; are you happy?
If you answered no, you can do something about it right now. Pray to God and tell him, tell him you're not happy, you want more from life and you need him. To make everything right, to take away whats been bringing you down and he will surely answer.